Conventional marriage advice and counseling typically focuses heavily on one aspect of the relationship, that being communication.
Of course communication IS important ,
Just like dating your spouse is important
BUT ...... What if what is being communicated still isn’t being received well by the other partner?? 😬
What if you’re doing your obligatory “date nights” but those dates still aren’t necessarily “OFF THE HOOK” so to speak? 🤗
Well, this leads us to another pillar of the marriage relationship , which somehow has been terribly overlooked, forgotten about, and even treated as if it were insignificant , trivial, or petty.
And that is .... 🏆ATTRACTION🏆
You know , the thing that actually brought you together in the first place!
Trust me on this !
You don’t have a communication problem.
You don’t have a romance problem.
You don’t have a sex problem.
You Have an Attraction Problem!
It could sound shallow until you look at it through the right lens , but
ATTRACTION FIXES EVERYTHING!!!!
🔥❤️⚔️💯🏎👍🥳💪🏻💋👀 When you’re attracted , communication is ON!
When you’re attracted , romance is a byproduct !
When you’re attracted , sex is a Given!
And the only way to get this in motion is to start right now , TODAY , working on YOUR SELF!
Not working on your spouse
Not waiting on your spouse to work on their self first ... IMMEDIATELY start working on the variable that YOU can control.
Improving your fitness , your energy , your attitude , your wardrobe , your confidence , your word choice , your vocal tone , your body language , your time management, your goals ... and the list goes on ... I want to tell you husbands a secret :
Your wife is a woman - and a woman wants a Man !
So become a better one = Confident=Dominant=Physically Strong=Financially Stable=Seductive=Having a Plan=A Purpose=and a life that is totally Mission Driven!
And to the wives; in case you forgot .. your husband is a man - and a man wants a woman!
So be the ultimate version of that you can be !
This is how it goes, and if you ever believed otherwise .. you played yourself!
Now get to work!