“It’s either fuck yeah, or no”. To quote @ihviiimattvincent .
In 2019, I decided to really grab this mantra and run with it.
Now to me, the way I see it is two fold.
If you aren’t bought in, don’t show up, don’t go into something half-assed, in my opinion if you’re going to go in, you should be willing to go all in.
That changed the way I did business, made friendships, trained, if I’m honest, it probably cascaded and effect almost every aspect of my life.
It also meant that when I decided to do something, I committed.
On multiple occasions I doubted my own abilities, questioned if I had made the right decision, was extremely nervous at the idea of going all in and failing (yeah I was also the kid who didn’t revise for exams). Point is, I’m no expert, but in my opinion if you want in, like really really want in, you should be prepared to go for it.
But it’s also more than okay to say “No, thank you” when something isn’t conducive to move you forwards whatever that might look like.